A dating expert reveals the main reason women refuse to have s** with their husbands

A dating expert has told us the biggest reason why women stop having s** with their spouses.

Relationships may be hard to figure out, and even when you think you’ve got it all figured out, something always surprises you.

But what happens when important parts of the relationship, like closeness, start to go away?

A dating specialist has said that certain men should be careful when their partner quits starting and taking part in s**y time with them.

Dr. Sarah Hensley, a relationship counselor with a PhD in social psychology, has shared the main reason why some women stop having s** with their partners.

She said in a TikTok video that has been seen more than 2.9 million times that the main reason women stop having s** with their husbands is that they don’t feel emotionally safe.

They don’t feel emotionally safe because their relationship isn’t meeting their attachment needs.

She went on to say that attachment needs are the most important things we require in a romantic connection, and if those needs aren’t met, we won’t feel safe emotionally.

When women don’t feel emotionally comfortable, they start to feel quite unsafe giving their bodies to their partner and very unattracted to them.

@drsarahhensley

First, seggs is a code word you can hopefully figure out because I’m not about to get kicked off. Secondly, there ARE other reasons like feeling like their husband doesn’t help them with the workload, or affairs, etc. BUT this is THE biggest reason by far. Calm down and breathe, I know it may be hard to hear and you’ll get triggered. But I am here to help you start getting your needs met. Don’t shoot the messanger. I am direct and I make no apologies for my assertiveness. I’m a coach not a therapist. #love #relationships #intimacy #marriage #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage

♬ original sound – Dr. Sarah Hensley | Love Doc

Hensley then said that some people need more love and support, while others need less criticism and more peace in their relationship.

The nervous people who were worried about their main need is love, affection, and comfort.  She added that they require a lot of confirmation every day that you love them and that the connection is stable.

For the dismissive-avoidant woman, peace and harmony in the relationship mean having space, freedom, and no criticism.

The designer said that she sees a lot of this mismatch when relationships fall apart. Women may say what they need every day, but their spouse doesn’t meet those demands, which makes things unstable for them.

Research has supported this, but other people have also talked about other things that could be causing a lack of closeness in a relationship.

One person said, “I think hormonal changes play a bigger part,” and another said, “Broken trust is a huge turn off.”

One reader even wrote about their own experiences, saying, “My emotional needs weren’t met when I had to act like his mother and take care of him like a child.” He was a fully grown man who could do anything.

And this person also said, “And they act so surprised when you’re not in the mood after they yelled at you all day and broke things around the house.”

What do you think about the problem?